I am a mom! I have two small children who have tons of toys and very little place to play. We live in a small house with only two bedrooms. Wanting to have our children close by when they play, we gave up the dining room and turned it into a playroom. A whole room designed around toys and playing...yet my children still insist on playing in every other room in the house! As much as the constant chaos and mess can be overwhelming at times, I love it and wouldn't trade it for the world!
I am also an avid fan of decorating magazines, decorating shows, decorating catalogs, decorating blogs, and decorating books. While my tastes have always been in the realm of country, lately I find myself drawn to primitives. I have dabbled in cottage style and shabby chic. I enjoy reading the articles about these people who decorate their "small homes" (since when is 1800 sq. ft. "small"???!) in pure primitive or colonial style. The pictures look so warm. The decor is so simple. The furniture is aged to perfection. But each time I wonder... where do these people keep all their junk??? Where are the Lego's and the princess dolls and the Little People? Where are the piles of school papers and bill stubs? And are those sparse looking straight back chairs and sofas comfortable? Is this reality?
It is not mine. I have to be satisfied for a few vignettes scattered throughout my home that dictate the style I like. I have to slip-cover the sofa to hide the stains made by malfunctioning sippy cup valves and spit up and other unpleasantries that come with kids (and clumsy adults). Sometimes it is frustrating. Kids scribbling on the kitchen table with marker does not add "patina". It adds MESS! Putting a wet glass on your grandmother's hand-me-down hutch does not make it look pleasingly distressed. It leaves an unsightly white ring that no amount of polish or patch-up will fix.
That is MY REALITY! And to be honest, I am alright with that. Actually I am better than alright with it, I am thrilled with that. My kids love being home. They love standing on the sofa (no matter how many times I tell them not to) to push the buttons on the TV. I have made some trusty friends in Resolve Carpet and Upholstery Cleaner, Windex, and Pledge. I am actually contemplating becoming the proud owner of the "ShamWow" (as seen on TV) to fray the cost of papertowels. Someday I may have a magazine-spread-worthy home. For now I am going to bask in the fact that my kids are happy and active and comfortable scattering themselves and their belongings throughout my house! Don't get me wrong. They treat our nicer things with respect and, mercifully, I have had very few of our "treasures" broken. But they definitely aren't pussy-footing around the place, either!
An email I once received read, "Dusting...a house becomes a home when you can write "I love you" on the furniture." I like this philosophy. However, I also enjoy looking up from my magazines and finding the little places where my love of primitive country knock-offs shine through the clutter and bustle of everyday life (antiques and originals around little kids? Uh-uh!) . Now I will share some of these little eye-retreats. Keep scrolling....
Welcoming Front Door
I am a big fan of wreaths. I have many of them hung around the house. This is the view of the inside of our front door. I hung the baskets up out of the way by using a spring-loaded curtain rod. It does the trick nicely. I guess I truly am a pack-rat since one of the baskets is almost 30 years old. I carried it when I was a flower girl in my aunt's wedding when I was 7.
Let There Be Light!
I am a big fan of these little candle-bulb lamps. I have at least one in each room. I also love candles. This particular one smells of oatmeal cookies! The handsome devil in the background is my husband's grandfather. It is a beautiful picture taken at Old Sturbridge Village where he has been the tinsmith for the last two-plus decades!
The Catch-All Bench
It seems every trinket I get ends up here. I orignially bought this bench to use as a coffee table. It couldn't handle the amount of stuff we left on it. After my son almost tipped it a few times when he was a toddler, we banished it to a spot against a wall.
The TV's Hideaway
The TV armoir is where we display a picture of our wedding and my grandmother's wedding portrait.
A Mish-Mash of Country Accents
A little shelf that originally held baskets of hats and mittens found a new home in the living room under the barnwood Keeping Room sign. Now it holds books and candles and other trinkets. Whatever...it just fits.
The Little Shelf
This is a close up of the little shelf. My daughter loves the little houses and often takes them to play with.
Happy with Hand-Me-Downs
The end table and the rocking chair are just two examples of hand-me-downs we have received from our family.
Bittersweet on the Breakfront
Each autumn my husband cuts some bittersweet from the hedges in our yard. I love the reds and deep yellows of the berries. It reminds me of hibernating during the cold months. I leave it up all year because I can't bear to part with it until I have more.
Our "Make-Do" Fire Place
We do not have a real fireplace (although we would love to have one if we renovate). Wanting the warmth and effect of one, I bought an electric space heater fireplace our first winter here. I took a simple shelf and hung it under a print to act as a mantle. I even placed patio pavers underneath it to give it the appearance of a hearth. Not bad. It heats the room nicely, too. Bonus!
Grandpa Ernie's Chair Make-Over
The gold fabric on this chair had to go! Who did I call? Grandpa Ernie. My husband's grandfather loves a challenging project. This kept him busy for just under a week. Then it was on to the next project!
Kitchen Counter Displays
I would love to have butcher block counters. Maybe some day I will. Until then I have scattered wooden cutting boards on the work surfaces in my kitchen (all two of them). The star theme is repeated in just about every room of my house.
Here is another example. The sampler in the background hides some of the ugly vinyl backsplash.
Mil's Hutch
This hutch belonged to my husband's late Grandma Mil. I resisted taking this at first. It means so much to my husband, as it was one of Millie's prized posessions. So we took it and I changed out the hardware and now I love it. I keep all sorts of stuff inside it and the display space it great. Plus it is a little piece of Mildred that will reside with us forever!
2008 Impulse Buy
I couldn't resist! Then I got it home and had no idea what to do with it. I improvised! Now it holds cookbooks and table cloths and other little things I have picked up along the way. The cabinet underneath is great for coloring books and crayons. They are always at the ready when my kids want to spend time doing artwork and homework at the table while I work in the kitchen.
FAVORITE LITTLE SHOPS
Saybrook Country Barn in Old Saybrook, CT
Cape Cod Crafters (even though it is a chain) in Shrewsbury, MA
Yankee Peddlar in Sturbridge, MA
Yesteryears in Leicester, MA
JR Crafts in W. Boylston, MA
Timeless Treasures in Oxford, MA
Things I Miss When They Stop
When Chelsea stops telling us that everything is giving her a headache!
When Chelsea starts calling Santa by his real name. Right now she calls him "Mimas Tree"
If my kids stop being entertained by simple things
When my kids stop climbing into bed with me in the middle of the night (although right now it drives me stark-raving-mad!)
When Chelsea stops copying everything Travis does (although this drives him stark-raving mad!)
When my kids stop showing excitement when I walk into a room
When Travis stops being obssessed with Trains (if he stops)
When I ask Chelsea if she is my "big girl" and she says "No. Baby!"
When my kids stop talking with lisps
When Travis gets so excited that he hugs and kisses us while laughing and telling us he loves us
When they say "Carry You Me" when they wanted to be lifted up
Hooray for Home Depot!
This is a souvenir from a monthly event at Home Depot. On the first Saturday of each month, they have a free workshop for kids. They build simple projects. On their first visit they get an apron. On each subsequent visit they get a badge to put on the apron. My son made a little race car with the Home Depot logo on it. He loves the thing! It must be pretty special, as it ranked important enough for him to take the car, badge, and apron into preschool for show and tell. That is an honor he doesn't bestow on just anything. It has to be a real treasure!
My Porch
When we bought our house four years ago, one of the selling points was the fact that it had a three-season porch. It is my favorite place in the house. We read out there. We play out there. Occasionally my kids even sleep out there. We installed a ceiling fan to keep it cool and placed a loveseat at one end to cozy up on. It is like having a vacation house right out my front door!
My Retreat from Life!
Our Three-Season Porch
The baker's rack holds lots of treasures and is right next to our front door.
Bits of Summer
Finally a good use for empty candle jars: I store my kids beach finds in them. I put shells and pretty rocks in the jar and label it with the name of the beach and the date from which these treasures were taken. The kids love to look at them and the tightly fitting tops keeps the fishy beach smell at bay (where it belongs). They hold a place of honor on the baker's rack and add to the summery ambiance of the porch!
A Recipe for the Kitchen-Phobic with a Finicky Family
In my family the big joke is that I am not interested in cooking (eating yes! cooking no!). My philosophy is that once you learn how to cook, people think you are going to cook! Luckily I married an excellent cook. We work opposite schedules and have two kids so I have had to pick up a few tricks to feed the kids and I when daddy is working. I have learned you can cook an amazing amount of dishes using Lipton Soup Mix. This is one of our favorites:
Mom's Chicken Potato Casserole Cut up the following ingredients into 1 inch cubes and place in a 9ish by 12ish Pyrex pan: -some boneless chicken -some potatoes (skin on or off) -a few vegetables of your choice (some suggestions that I have tried include green beans, zucchini, carrots, peas, summer squash, tomatoes (canned, frozen or fresh) Coat all ingredients with Olive Oil. Add Lipton Savory Garlic and Herb Soup Mix (Onion Soup Mix and minced garlic also works) and stir. Sprinkle with Parmesan and stir. Bake in oven at 400 F for about 40 minutes or until Potatoes are done to your liking (stirring occasionally) . Dish out and sprinkle more Parm to liking. Enjoy.
I need to separate the chicken, potatoes, and veggies for my kids or they will not eat it. I eat it all together like a stew. It is a big hit with all who have tried it. And it is even after it has been frozen and reheated!
Popcorn Anyone?
Bought these in the dollar section of a chain store, Kids love them. Pair these with microwave popcorn and a movie and it is a little kernel of heaven for them!
I am a teacher by trade and a stay at home mom in the summer. Best of both worlds as far as I am concerned! My son is 6 and in kindergarten. My daughter is a very spirited 2 year old! In my heart I am a decorator and shopper.
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